Those moments.

We all have our own hard time, sad times and times of desperation. Those moments we feel that we can't go on, those moments we feel that we ran out of options and moments when we feel like suicide was the only option. We lose our sense of direction, we let our emotions overwhelmed us and we allow Mr Pessimist take full control of our mind. 

Even the most optimist person of Earth will face one of this moments. It's not wrong to have hard times and all, but it is wrong if we don't contain or control our emotions. A quote saying " Don't make promises when you're happy, and don't decide when you're angry " is basically telling us that, emotions are a huge part of a person. When we're happy, we can agree with anything and when we're mad, we can make the stupidest and usually regretful decision of our lives.

When we're at our lowest point, we give up on everything around us and everyone in the world. We give up on life and hope. We forget people we really cared about us, we forget true friends that we have and we forget God. Then we get pissed with everything in the world, kids, wives, parents' and the society and also everything that has ever happened. At one point, we'll finally get tired and break down. Then we feel that the world and everyone else turned their back on us. We feel alone and lost in a dimension of sadness and sorrow that no one cared about. 

What we don't realize is everyone has a person or more than one who will care about us. Usually parents' and friends that were always by your side when you're at your lowest. But the important one is the person is your Heart, God and everything that matters the most to you. If we calm down and take notice of our own situation, we'll find out that things isn't as bad as you thought it was and you'll know that there are actually people out there going through a much worse time than you are. 

Sorrows and sadness aren't mean for you to give up on life and hope. It is meant for you to grow stronger so that sorrow and sadness can't hurt you again. Sure, it's is perfectly normal to be sad for awhile but just don't let your sadness take over. Try remembering those moments when life was actually perfect, remembering those people who actually cared about you and people who loved you with all their heart.

It's not worth it to let go of your life, hopes and dreams just because you can't handle your sadness. There's more to life than just sadness. Suicidal is never and will never be the answer to problems. Abandoning the world is never the answer also and forgetting people around you will never be the answer to anything. Share your problems with your good friends, don't be Superman and keep your problems to yourself.

When you approach to people with your problem, be ready and expect them to say things like " Just let it go " or " Just forget it " or " There are bigger fishes in the sea " and shits like that. You can't blame them for giving these sound-simple advises because that is all they can do. They're not in your shoes so they don't know what are you going through. Best advices you can get is from people who had go through what you are going through. Other people only can listen to your problems and that's the best they can do.

Sadness and sorrows will always occur throughout our journey of life and the only thing we can do is overcome it. Appreciate people around you because they will be the one to help you up when you fall. Give a total of ZERO fucks to things that you don't like to hear or see. Let things that hurt you most go, let people that hurt you the most go and don't let them bring your life down. Remember, you can't prevent sadness, you can only overcome it.